Vivinavi : Hawaii : (United States) Hawaii

• zebra
• 2022/08/23 (Tue) 16:25
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A woman I knew in Hawaii died of cancer a few years ago, even though she was only in her fifties.

I could only think that it was a disaster for her to be so patient.

If you feel stressed, get a divorce or have fun with friends. I regretted that something could not have been done earlier.

Life seemed long and short to her.

I hope this friend, whom I met in passing, moves on quickly so that it doesn't happen.

Mr. HI
Why is it that if there is a negative element, they will leave the others ？
Maybe they are too proud ？
If you can't be open minded, you will get what you deserve.
It may be easy to be comfortable with people you meet from time to time, but
it's like a superficial relationship, and it's lonely.

• HI
• mail
• 2022/08/23 (Tue) 18:39
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>>zebra

I envy you Lord for having friends who are not just upper class
and who don't mind the details.
Unfortunately, I am not blessed with friends on this island,
and I have never encountered a friend
who could keep a "don't tell" policy, which is common among women.
So, I keep my relationship with them without giving details.
It's easier later on and I don't get caught up in the "she heard it too". It sounds lonely, but I feel that in Hawaii, where it is a small island and someone is connected to someone somewhere, it is a good idea.

I feel a difficulty in socializing that I did not feel in Japan.
I am sure there are a lot of people with free time in Hawaii.

• HonoluluWaikiki
• 2022/08/23 (Tue) 20:27
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It is not only Japanese, but there are some.

I think you should avoid such people.

I don't like Japanese society, so I stay away from them.
My surroundings are mostly LOCOs or Filipinos.

• 空
• 2022/08/23 (Tue) 23:11
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Hawaii is a small state, so it seems to me that there is a high level of isolation from strange Japanese people. One of the women around me gave birth to her second child at home in the water because she was dissatisfied with the hospital delivery of her first child. She told me that if she gave birth in a hospital, she would be put into a system that suited the hospital or given an intravenous drip that she did not understand, so she talked about spiritual underwater birth instead of hospital birth. There are many people on this island who force their opinions on others and are like rat race.

• Q
• 2022/08/24 (Wed) 09:53
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I sympathize with Sky. Doterra of essential oils is persistent. I'm getting off track with the mean Japanese, though.
I don't know where they are connected to anyone, so I have trouble saying no strongly enough.