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What I think of the Manoa family's impossible heartbreak.

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  • miki
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  • 2024/03/13 17:01

On Sunday, there was a case of forced suicide of a family of five in Manoa, where a husband took his own life after murdering his Japanese wife and stabbing their three children.

The husband, a chiropractor, was $90,000 in debt and had not paid his taxes.

In Hawaii, it is common to see groups of Japanese wives, and luxury people are often clustered in such groups, and even among them, there are often Japanese who are vain and show off their sparkling family life inside and outside the home （ In Instagram ）
If you have a lot of assets, you can play the role of a "real" person as much as you want, but if you associate with such a person, it is inevitable that you will have a financial ruin soon. I don't think he likes luxury.
His daughter is also a student at Iolani School, and she was going to go to college in the Mainland in the spring, so he would have had to spend a lot of money. If so, why couldn't she have gone to a public school? ？ I also don't understand why she would send her daughter to Iolani, which is very expensive and she has a lot of debt.

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#2
  • coco
  • 2024/03/13 (Wed) 18:04
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#1 miki

I saw the news after reading this. As a Japanese woman, I am very sorry and sad to hear this news.
I think only $90,000 debt is enough to pay back by working together, $9 million is understandable. I can't believe that they sacrificed their three teenage children. If they had divorced earlier, they wouldn't have had to go through this.

Domestic violence will be everywhere.

The more gentle a person usually is, the scarier they are when they snap.

Japanese women, protect yourselves and your precious children.
If you feel in danger, you should divorce quickly.
Make sure you are financially strong enough to get a divorce.

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#3

By saying that your husband is from Kauai and seems to be a good-natured loco boy, so I don't think he likes luxury,
you are saying that your wife's socializing was the cause of your financial difficulties ？
you may say you didn't mean to write that, but I know you may say you didn't mean it that way, but that's the way it reads. This is a story about another family, and you shouldn't write as if you are making assumptions when you don't know the exact reason.
When I saw the news, I simply felt sorry for the child and wondered ？ if there was any way to stay or think of something before he/she died. When I learn of incidents like this, I always think to myself, don't take your children off the street and let them die on their own.

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  • manoa
  • 2024/03/13 (Wed) 19:01
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May you rest in peace.
You shouldn't judge
others can't know.

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