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3. Regarding Being Forced to Feed a Cat(840view/1res) Problem / Need advice 2026/07/08 10:41
4. I've had some close calls at crosswalks.(1kview/6res) Problem / Need advice 2026/07/03 16:55
5. Child's Name (Japanese citizenship, U.S. citizensh...(1kview/2res) Problem / Need advice 2026/06/25 13:43
6. global entry(2kview/8res) Problem / Need advice 2026/06/19 02:31
7. How to deal with neighbor's sex noise(4kview/9res) Problem / Need advice 2026/05/21 20:20
8. Obtaining a Certificate of Divorce(1kview/2res) Problem / Need advice 2026/05/09 20:15
9. What omiyage do you recommend for babies?(11kview/3res) Problem / Need advice 2026/05/07 10:14
10. About a friend's pet sitter(1kview/5res) Problem / Need advice 2026/04/26 06:37
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I can no longer view my Yahoo Japan email on my iPhone.

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#1
  • YAHOO
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  • 2026/07/16 14:22

Whenever I try to check my email, a screen pops up asking me to enter my IMAP account password, and even when I enter the new password I just changed, it seems to be incorrect and I can't access my account. Just to be sure, I tried entering the old password, but that didn't work either. Could you please let me know if there's a solution or a company that handles this kind of issue? ?

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#2
  • こーの字
  • 2026/07/16 (Thu) 15:23
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Can't you resolve this by resetting your login method here? ?
https://login.yahoo.co.jp/ar/top

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#3
  • YAHOO
  • 2026/07/16 (Thu) 16:16
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I can log in through the Yahoo website and check my email there, but it doesn't seem to sync with the Mail app on my iPhone ?—the one that comes pre-installed on the iPhone. I'm thinking ? that there might be some restrictions because I live overseas.
I’m busy today, so I’m thinking of stopping by the Apple Store tomorrow, but since it’s a Japanese Yahoo Mail account, I’m worried they might not be able to resolve the issue.

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#4
  • こーの字
  • 2026/07/17 (Fri) 08:51
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So that’s the situation, then.

It seems that Yahoo Mail does indeed have restrictions on access from overseas enabled by default.
https://whatsnewmail.yahoo.co.jp/yahoo/20250805a.html

Disabling the access restrictions for overseas users might make it possible.
https://support.yahoo-net.jp/PccMail/s/article/H000007323

I hope it works out.

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#5
  • YAHOO
  • 2026/07/17 (Fri) 16:47
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As Ko-ji-san mentioned, I tried disabling access from overseas yesterday, but it didn't work.
Today, I received helpful advice at the Apple Store, and we tried all sorts of solutions, but we couldn’t resolve the issue. For now, they set up a bookmark for Yahoo! Japan Mail, and I’ve been opening it from there. Although I’ve saved my password and other information on my smartphone, I have to go through text verification every time I open it, which is a hassle.
The Apple representative told me to try opening it again from the iPhone Mail app after a while—they said there’s a chance it might start working for some reason, but they couldn’t say for sure. They mentioned that this kind of thing happens from time to time.
I imagine there are many people living overseas who use the Yahoo! Japan Mail service—has anyone else been affected by this?

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Tell me about it.

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  • M
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  • 2026/07/08 17:06

Is Yakitori Ando currently open?
I’m worried because there haven’t been any updates on their Instagram, and I can’t get through when I call.
I know I could just go there in person, but it’s far from my house, so
if anyone knows, please let me know.
Thank you in advance.

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#2
  • はしお
  • 2026/07/10 (Fri) 15:55
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I think you should try calling after 6:00 p.m.
It seems they're open every day except Wednesday. 808-739-5702

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#3
  • M
  • 2026/07/10 (Fri) 20:11
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Thank you for letting me know.
I was able to get through on the phone. It was a very busy
restaurant where it’s hard to get a reservation.
Thank you very much.

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Regarding Being Forced to Feed a Cat

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  • Nayami
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  • 2026/07/06 10:25

There are a lot of cats in a certain part of Waikiki.
For several years now, taking a walk around there has been part of my daily routine,
and I walked there every day, when I happened to meet a woman of Brazilian descent
who was feeding the cats.
I like animals, but I was somewhat skeptical
about feeding stray cats, before long, I ended up helping to trap the cats,
which I did because I wanted to help, but
I started getting asked to feed them on days when she was working late or traveling,
I’ve turned them down many times, saying I couldn’t do it long-term,
but they pleaded with me, saying the cats were pitiful, and also because that person
is good at manipulating people to do as they please by coming up with all sorts of excuses,
so before I knew it, I’m now being made to feed the cats quite frequently every week.
Because of this, I can’t go anywhere, and I have to deal with the guilt and
inner conflict over feeding the cat, plus the cost of food is quite high, so
it feels like it’s going to wear me down both mentally and physically.
On top of that, this person has announced they’re moving to Hawaii Kai soon,
and even though they initially said they’d come from Hawaii Kai to Waikiki to feed the cats,
now they’re trying to push the entire responsibility onto me,
which is causing me a lot of trouble. It would be easy for me to just quit, but since there are cats that are always
waiting for me and some that are used to people, I just can’t bring myself to make that decision.
I thought about consulting an animal welfare group again, so I contacted a few, but I haven’t received any replies at all,
and I’m really at a loss.
I’d really appreciate it if anyone could give me some advice.

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#2
  • 動物大好き
  • 2026/07/08 (Wed) 10:41
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Nayami,
you’ve run into someone who’s incredibly irresponsible.
If you can’t take responsibility until the very end, you shouldn’t have started in the first place, but first of all, feeding stray cats in public places without permission is illegal.
You could be fined, so you should stop doing that.
Feeding cats that haven’t been spayed or neutered contributes to the stray cat population, which is likely why that law was enacted.
A while back, a cat-loving neighbor of mine started feeding them, but it led to a vicious cycle where kittens kept having kittens, and the stray cat population exploded. After receiving complaints from other neighbors, they had a hard time catching them all and eventually took them to the Humane Society.
So, I think it’s fine to just say, “I’m sorry, but I don’t want to break the law,” to that irresponsible friend.
I think the cats will eventually move to areas where animal welfare organizations have obtained permits to feed them.

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I've had some close calls at crosswalks.

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  • rak
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  • 2026/06/20 16:05

I often get around on foot, and I really do find crossing the street dangerous and unpleasant. Mainly, cars turning right from the opposite direction don’t stop even when there are pedestrians crossing. Of course, I cross carefully, expecting them not to stop, but since I have to make it across before the light changes, there are times when I can’t take my time crossing. I keep an eye on the drivers, and while some make a “sorry” gesture, I can’t forgive them at all. They’re usually women. If pedestrians had dashcams like drivers do, even if we didn’t get into an accident, could we submit the footage to the police if we were put in a dangerous situation, and would they issue a ticket for the violation? ? I think there needs to be stricter enforcement against careless drivers. Or I’d like to see the rule changed so that right turns aren’t allowed on red lights.

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#3
  • DOWNTOWN
  • 2026/06/28 (Sun) 16:29
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P.S. — Since traffic violations are caught in the act, even if you report the video to the HPD, they’ll just say, “Please be careful,”
and won’t issue a ticket.

They will keep a record of it, though. Unless they witness the incident firsthand, they won’t issue a ticket.
If they were to issue a ticket for every single instance, they’d end up issuing tickets to
every single driver.

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#4
  • rak
  • 2026/06/28 (Sun) 23:06
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Thank you for sharing your experience and letting me know that tickets are only issued for drivers caught in the act.
What’s more, this recent incident happened while I was walking with my child in a stroller—I thought we’d be pretty noticeable, but the driver seemed to completely ignore us, which really made me angry. If it had been drizzling, I might have felt so miserable that I would have burst into tears.
A little while ago, I also witnessed a car accident right in front of me at an intersection where two cars collided. If I’d been walking a little further ahead and waiting at the traffic light, I might have been caught up in it, so I’ve been staying extra vigilant when waiting at traffic lights lately.

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#5

The other day, while driving down Kapahulu Avenue, I saw someone crossing the crosswalk while filming the traffic ? on the street ? with their smartphone. Every single car, both to the right and left, had come to a complete stop. After seeing your post, I wondered if this person might have had a similar experience ?, but how about trying to cross the crosswalk this way? ?

Even when I’m driving, I feel like traffic has been moving faster lately. I think pedestrians must have a lot of scary experiences. Our street faces a major road, and since there are quite a few traffic accidents, to be honest, I’m afraid to let my son walk there alone.

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#6
  • Copilot
  • 2026/07/03 (Fri) 15:50
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#5 Mr. M
> Why don’t you try crossing the crosswalk this way? ?

The City of Honolulu has a law commonly known as the “No Smartphone While Walking Law ( Distracted Walking Law / Ordinance Section 15-24.23 ),”
which prohibits “viewing ( Viewing ) ” the screen of electronic devices such as smartphones while crossing crosswalks or roads.

We’ve summarized the key points you should know.

[Prohibited Activities ・ and Devices]

◆Prohibited actions: Sending text messages, checking social media, browsing the web, and watching videos on your smartphone are, of course, prohibited—even “simply checking the time on the screen” is not allowed.

◆Covered devices: Smartphones, tablets, laptops, digital cameras, handheld game consoles, etc.

◆The Only Exception: This is permitted only when calling 911 ( for an emergency ).

🚨Hands-free calls or listening to music ?
"looking at the screen" is what is regulated; therefore, making a call without looking at your smartphone screen or
listening to music while crossing the street—( setting safety concerns aside—) does not constitute a violation of this law.

💡 Crossing the street while filming a video—if you’re looking at the screen—is a violation and subject to a fine.
I know of people who paid fines for this before the pandemic, but enforcement of this violation has now become more lenient.

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#7
  • Copilot
  • 2026/07/03 (Fri) 16:55
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I forgot to mention one more important point.

In the event of a traffic accident on a crosswalk, if you were filming the incident, the pedestrian would also be considered to have committed a violation, which would put them at a disadvantage.

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Child's Name (Japanese citizenship, U.S. citizenship)

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  • Niina
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  • 2026/06/16 17:53

For those of you whose husbands are American and whose children were born in the U.S., what have you done about your children’s names? ?
In Japan,
Yamada\ (my Japanese last name ) Hanako

In the U.S.,
Ray Hanako Smith\ (my husband’s last name )
—but

have you ever encountered any problems when booking plane tickets or dealing with paperwork? ?
I’d appreciate your advice.

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#2
  • Sun
  • 2026/06/17 (Wed) 16:28
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Since you can’t use kanji with your husband’s last name, you’re planning to use the same last name as your Japanese mother, right?
I think it’ll be fine because they’ll add your husband’s last name in parentheses on your Japanese passport, but the names won’t match, will they?
If I use that example name for my child’s Japanese name, I believe it will be registered in the family register as Yamada Hanako Rei. We’ll list it as Hanako Rei on official documents, but if we end up living in Japan, we’ll let people call her either Hanako or Rei—whichever they prefer.
The passport is written entirely in Roman letters as Yamda(Smith) Lei Hanako.
I’m curious how others in international marriages have handled this, but I think the best thing to do is consult with the Japanese consulate.

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#3
  • ダブルネーム
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  • 2026/06/25 (Thu) 13:43
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In our case, for some reason, my name on my Japanese family register has ended up as a combined name with my husband’s, so so our children’s passports list

Japan
Smith Yamada Hanako Rei

USA
Smith Hanako Rei

USA —they don’t include our Japanese family name. We’ve traveled back and forth between Hawaii and Japan many times, and we’ve never had any problems. The only issue is that the names are so long they sometimes don’t fit on the airline tickets.

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global entry

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  • Mai
  • 2026/04/23 15:01

Is it worth paying $120 for global entry ? I have heard that the tourist lane was faster depending on the date and time. I would love to hear reviews from those who have obtained it 😌.

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#5
  • Mai
  • 2026/04/24 (Fri) 15:36
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My friend who came recently said it wasn't crowded, so I guess it depends on the time of year … Thank you all for your answers.

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#6

I've been back to Hawaii at the end of last month, the beginning of this month, and the 19th of this month, and all three times there was no line at all !
It was very smooth !.

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#7

I was in the immigration line for 2 hours when I came back in Feb. As a GC holder, I am usually instructed to stand in the US passport line with my US citizen family members, but this time I was instructed to stand in the tourist line with my family members because of the new rules. So all the US Passport family members stood in the tourist line with me for 2 hours.

When my turn finally came, all of my US citizen family members were sent to a separate room with me, and they were also inconvenienced. I have a feeling that even if I apply for Global Entry, it will be rejected because of my history of visa denial decades ago.

I used to be sent to a separate room every time, so I got a redress number, and after getting the number, I don't have to be sent to a separate room anymore, but this time, the officer at the counter happened to be new, and all my family members were exhausted after being sent to a separate room for a long time.

I want to get global entry, but I think I will fail in the screening process, so I have given up on MPC for now ….

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#8
  • Sunflower
  • 2026/05/26 (Tue) 08:18
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I returned to Hawaii from Japan last week.
This was my first
airport immigration since getting Global Entry.
The tourist lanes were not as long as in October, but
the Global Entry lanes were
the smoothest I have ever seen.
I was glad I got Global Entry.

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#9
  • Globe
  • 2026/06/19 (Fri) 02:31
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This year, I flew back to Hawaii on ANA. Since I arrived at 8:00 a.m., there was no one in line.

Last time, I flew JAL and arrived after 9:00 a.m., so I had to wait in line for nearly an hour at Honolulu Airport without a Global Entry card.

I think if I continue flying ANA, I probably won’t need Global Entry.

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How to deal with neighbor's sex noise

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  • ABC
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  • 2026/01/28 23:48

I am very annoyed right now.
The man next door who moved in about a year ago started making this noise last summer. Because of this, the person who lived on the other side of that man recently moved out. I do not want to move. Is there any way to deal with this ? I don't think I can count on the landlord. Because I have repeatedly told them to get rid of the mopeds on the property, which I believe were probably stolen and dumped, but they have been there since last summer or so.

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  • ABC
  • 2026/01/29 (Thu) 16:04
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I'll report this to my landlord because I like my current room, the location and the price, and I don't want to move as much as possible. When this noise started, the dog from the house next door was barking in response, but he hasn't been barking lately.

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#4

You should record it first ! they won't take up the conversation without proof. I was also bothered by this for many years, FYI.

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#5

This is a counter-prescription for when I was in Los Angeles.
In Los Angeles, noise is out between 10:00 and 7:00.
Hawaii is the same way, so
report it to the management company and if it hasn't improved,
it's perfectly acceptable to call the police.
Also, as other users have said, preservation of evidence is important and
necessary when notifying the noise source of a breach of contract.
Also, nationality depends on race, but there is a good chance that
the police will only come once and
it will stop. In my case, the landlord terminated the contract quickly after two reports.
However, if it is discovered that you are the one who reported the incident, the same thing can happen to you, and you can get upset
because of your race and nationality.
The strongest recording is a video with a clock and date and time.

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  • ABC
  • 2026/01/30 (Fri) 17:42
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Thank you all for the adbus !
I have to record it and leave evidence, and the noise standard has to be exceeded. And it could go to court ! ?
If it goes that far, this case may be at the unpleasant sound level of noise.

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  • ABC
  • 2026/05/21 (Thu) 20:20
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I posted my concerns earlier and there has been a development, so let me report !
Oh dear ! the problem neighbor is going to be contacted by the apar management to move out within 2 months.
The neighbor in question, the one who moved into the room opposite ours, the new tenant made a complaint and contacted me to confirm that it was true and to tell him to move !.

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Obtaining a Certificate of Divorce

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  • HI-SI
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  • 2026/04/21 18:15

Please let me know if you know of anyone who may be able to help me.


2008 ~ I filed for divorce at the Family Court in Kapolei in 2009,
but since the divorce was almost 20 years ago, I can't find the
original documents that my attorney at the time gave me because they are missing.

I would like to get a divorce certificate because I am thinking of remarrying
I can't find how to apply for it at eCourt* Kokua or the court website ・ ・ ・
I used to be able to apply at the Dept. of Health.
I have not been able to do so since Feb. 1.

The divorce attorney's office has already closed
and I can't rely on them.

If anyone knows how to get a divorce certificate,
or knows a law firm that can do it for me,
please share your wisdom.

Thank you in advance.

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#2
  • おせっかいBBA
  • 2026/05/07 (Thu) 18:06
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ハワイ州では離婚受理証明書はDept. Of Health ではなく離婚を成立させた家庭裁判所に申請して入手するそうです。その際ケース番号が必要となります。(裁判所のHo' Ohiki のサイトから探せる) 申請は直接裁判所の事務所に出向くか郵送ででも可能みたいです。そんなに難しいように思えないので弁護士事務所に頼む前にご自分でトライしてみてはいかがでしょうか?

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#3
  • HI-SI
  • 2026/05/09 (Sat) 20:15
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Thank you for the
useful information, nosy BBA.

I am currently in another state and cannot go to court
in person, but
I see that it is possible to request by mail !
I will do my own research again.
Thank you again.
Thank you very much.

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What omiyage do you recommend for babies?

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  • 叔母ハワイ
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  • 2026/04/11 11:54

My sister's son (my nephew) just had a baby and she asked me to buy something for the baby on my next trip back to Hawaii.

When my nephew was born, there were many stores specializing in baby items in Hawaii, so I bought a lot of things every time I went back to Japan, but now everything is available online, and I can't think of what to buy. My next trip back to Japan will be in June, so I will be able to give the baby to a boy, about 2 months old. Do you have any recommendations for omiyage for babies? Please not large items such as strollers, bouncers, etc.

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#2

If you are in the baby clothes section of Macy's, you can always find baby clothes at 40% to 60% off.
Unlike Japanese baby clothes, some baby clothes cover all arms and legs and are made to prevent scratching to the face by fingernails, which I think is very useful. In Japan, it is common to put on mittens or socks, so I think similar products are almost impossible to find. If you buy the 6month ones, I think they will last for a while. Also, it is a good idea to look at toys at Target and other places.
You won't get to use them until a little later ….

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#3
  • Ez
  • 2026/04/11 (Sat) 15:44
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ROSS also has baby products.

Waikele also has a baby and children's store.

Clothing, blankets, accessories and toys are appreciated.

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  • 叔母ハワイ
  • 2026/05/07 (Thu) 10:14
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#3 Mr. Ez

I went to the stores you gave me hints about. I have only met the baby's mother (my nephew's wife) once at a wedding, and I didn't know what she liked, so I was at a loss for what to buy at the store, and ended up buying an English picture book with rustling sounds for babies on Amazon. It's difficult for different generations. Thank you very much.

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About a friend's pet sitter

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  • Aoi
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  • 2026/04/25 05:40

A friend of mine, who is not a very close friend, has been asking me to dog sit
her two small dogs for a few years now.
At first I took it lightly, but the dogs are not potty trained
and I have to take them for walks about 5 times a day
and I have to stay with them all night.
So it's almost like they are tied up for the whole day, but
they never pay me any money, just some bad sushi from the supermarket
in the fridge.
The friend is now making several trips a year
and I am having trouble with it. Is it
normal for friends to offer free pet sitting ? or
how do you all do it when you are asked to pet sit for an acquaintance or friend?

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#2
  • 動物大好き
  • 2026/04/25 (Sat) 12:06
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I can't believe that you have been dog sitting for free for several years. I think they are just taking advantage of the good Lord who can't say no. People who are good at pampering are thick as thieves and will escalate the situation. In the US, if you are going to dog sit and even stay overnight, it is normal to pay, unless you are family. However, some people just find someone who can afford the time to pet-sit or babysit and impose on them for free.
I am not a person who is good at saying no to people, so I accepted it at first, but in common, such people ask for more and more favors.
Moreover, when I refused, they would ask me why they couldn't do it, and before I knew it, I was often surprised to find out that it was natural for them to accept my requests.

If you and your partner both have pets and you help each other when you travel, I understand. If you love your dog and don't mind taking care of it, that's fine, but why should you spend your time and effort on her pet while your friend is on vacation? ? I think you should be honest about your feelings and clearly decline.

If that makes it awkward for the other person to show no appreciation or apology for what you have done, I think you should keep your distance.

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#3

I frankly felt that "the dog owner is a really brazen person"
You are recognized as a handyman and not appreciated.
Please cut ties with such a person now. They will try to keep you in their words. But don't be fooled. They will not give up their connection with you for the reason that 'it will be inconvenient if the handyman disappears'. If you have a record of your past, don't forget to file a claim for damages through an administrative scrivener.

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#4
  • アナ
  • 2026/04/25 (Sat) 20:16
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It is not possible. We will pay for you even if you are close to us. You can choose to refuse. Because I got busy, you know. They may ask you for a little bit of help or something, but you should firmly refuse saying that you can't.

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#5
  • サン
  • 2026/04/25 (Sat) 22:56
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I was dog-sitting for a friend of mine for a while.
I had no intention of getting paid, but when I told my family later
they said there was no way I could dog sit for free.
Looking back, I was spending money on transportation to go to the dog sitter
so I was happy to get that much.
I think it is very expensive to have a dog sitter, so
I think she saves a lot of money and is able to travel ?

I know it is hard to say no, but I think you should give a reason
such as you are not feeling well.

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#6
  • Aoi
  • 2026/04/26 (Sun) 06:37
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Thank you all so much for your input and advice.
I have been bothered for a long time because I was worried that I would be considered narrow-minded to say no or mention money even though we are friends
. I will try to talk to him properly and say no.
Thank you very much !

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