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ジロジロ見られたら、どうしますか?
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- ガン見
- 2013/01/11 13:46
ハワイに住んで、気になることの一つに、中年以降の人達(男女は問いません)に、よくジロジロ見られることです。人によっては、ジロジロというよりジーっと見てくる人もいます。場所もさまざまで、バス停や、スーパー、ファミリーレストランなどです。ハワイなので、アジア人が珍しいからということではないはずです(事実、見てくるのは、アジア系の方達が殆どなので)
先程も、子供と一緒に、ファミリーレストランへ行ったのですが、隣に居た、女性二人と男性(いずれも中高年の方達)が、私達が席に着いたときから、ジロジロ見てきました。初めは、気にしないようにしたのですが、私達が注文し、料理が来たら、今度は、料理を見て、なにかコソコソ話し、私達が食べる姿を見て、またコソコソ・・・。三人とも、こちらを見ていたので、非常に食べにくかったです。私たちは、特に、変わった格好もしていませんし、子供も大人しく食べていましたので、周囲に迷惑を掛けていたことは無かったと思います。
先日は、バス停で、私をジーっと見てくる、おじさん(おじいさん?)もいて、とても心地悪く、遠くへ離れたのですが、私がバスに乗るまで、ずっと見ていました。
ジロジロと見てくる人達は、特に、独り言を言ったり変な人というわけでもないのですが、どうして、こんなにも、人のことを見てくるのかと不思議であり、不愉快です。
やはり、このような場合、無視するしかないのでしょうか?何かを言って、トラブルになっても嫌ですし・・・。同じような経験をされた方などいらっしゃいましたら、どうされたか教えてくださいませんか?日本やメインランドに住んでいた頃は、こんなことはなかったので、困惑しています。彼らは、ジロジロ見る=失礼だとは思っていないのでしょうか?
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>ちなみに、私の友達は、車を運転中に文句を言われたり、クラクションをならされると、ピースサインで返す!って言ってました。(笑)これもかなり、効果的かも!
「みるぱん」の称号を受け取ってください。
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- PLASMINAS
- 2013/01/16 (Wed) 11:34
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無視してください。関わるととんどもない事になります。
もし、レストラン等で嫌な思いをされてる時は、ウエイター・ウエイトレスに言えば、席を変えてくれますよ。
バス停などで嫌な思いされた場合は、「警察よぶよ。」と言えばよいですよ。
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