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#1
  • Allure
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  • 2023/10/01 10:47

I am a woman living in Hawaii.

I heard from a male friend of mine who is engaged to be married.

He said that girls who are Japanese tourists and are engaged to be married don't know too much about the high cost of living in Hawaii.

You shouldn't say you want to get married, move to Hawaii and become a housewife.

No matter how beautiful you are, how healthy you are, how good your character is, marriage is a life.

Most couples living in Hawaii work together. Even the wives of doctors.

The cost of living is 2-3 times that of Japan. Japan is the only developed country where prices and incomes have remained almost the same for decades. Hawaii is America, so men and women are equal. It is not uncommon to find couples where the wife earns more than the husband.

If you want to have children, you should earn your own money as well as your husband's.

If your husband has already paid off the mortgage, that's still fine, but if you both buy the house and pay for it together, you can pay it off faster and have more credit in your own history in the future.

If the husband dies first, the wife won't even get a survivor's pension until she is in her 60s.

Too few companies will hire a Japanese woman in her 60s who has never worked in Hawaii at all.

Start working in your 20s, 30s, and 40s to gain experience. I used to be a tourist living in Japan, so I would be very happy if I could be of help.

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#2
  • Diamond Head
  • 2023/10/01 (Sun) 13:08
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I am a male in a marriage. I sympathize with you very much.
I have exchanged emails and lines with several girls living in Japan
and had them come to Hawaii.
Each time, I felt the same thing.

Men ＝ Work and prepare money
Women ＝ Cook and wait at home ＋ Want to be taken out for fun ＋ Want to be bought something ＋ Want to dress up and eat at restaurants regularly
Most of them didn't think about the cost of living in Hawaii or the cost of living in Hawaii
I stopped marriage activity with girls living in Japan.

I would like to find one among those who have come to Hawaii to experience life and have difficulties.

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#3
  • Allure
  • 2023/10/01 (Sun) 16:22
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#2 Diamond Head

Hi ！ Thanks for the reply. I didn't know that Japanese men share your opinion ！ ！

My friend is a white male.

You can find Japanese women in Hawaii, especially if they are Japanese.

Long distance relationship between Japan and Hawaii is not easy.

I hope you can find a match with a woman who works for Green Card or Citizen.

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#4

A number of Japanese women have been deported after coming to meet men they met on dating apps.
Immigration officers will look at your LINE and photo library.
They can easily find out your credit card number and the name of the credit card you used to buy your airline ticket.
A woman who was deported on YouTube is being slammed by Hollimon and others.
Single women should not underestimate the importance of entering Hawaii.

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#5
  • Allure
  • 2023/10/03 (Tue) 17:17
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#4 CBP OFFICER

Thanks for the information.
If you are deported, you won't be able to enter the US anymore.

If there is such a dangerous possibility, it would be better to get married outside the US. You and your husband should come to Hawaii for your honeymoon.

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#6
  • 夕焼け
  • 2023/10/03 (Tue) 18:47
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Two couples I know met and got married on a matching app called Bumble.
They met and got married less than a year ago.
Of course I am not a housewife, I work. I think the Japanese ideal of Hawaii is from a tourist's point of view. It is a world where a cucumber costs 350 yen.

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#7
  • Allure
  • 2023/10/03 (Tue) 19:18
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#6 Sunset

Thanks for the info.
My friends who live in Hawaii have also remarried
through various matching apps.
Long distance relationship between Japan and Hawaii is difficult, but if you can live together and have compatibility
and Japanese woman has green card or citizen, it will be quick.

In yen, a cucumber is 350 yen ！
A dozen eggs $ 6 is 900 yen ！ ！

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#8
  • Eye candy
  • 2023/10/08 (Sun) 23:35
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Women with money to spare should live in US with an investor Visa before
getting married.

Mieko Hanada did so and got married again in Hawaii with a civilian.

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#9
  • ハワイファイブオー
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  • 2023/10/10 (Tue) 23:24
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Matching apps are an effective way to meet people, but
even if you have a partner, you will come back to them.
Marriage is not the final chapter.
Look at the person carefully before making a decision.
Surprisingly, the divorce rate among the Japanese on this island is high.

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#10
  • Allure
  • 2023/10/11 (Wed) 09:56
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#9 Hawaii Five-O

Thank you for your comment.

This is probably because Hawaii has more international marriages than Japanese couples.

Some couples quit together when they find a partner, but

please be careful because sometimes both men and women are registered by separated married couples.

I have seen many times that both men and women have "No married people allowed" in their profiles. I have seen this many times.

It's fine if you are just looking for fun, but for people who are serious about finding a partner, it makes sense to avoid wasting their time.

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#11
  • 便乗
  • 2023/10/15 (Sun) 12:32
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Hawaii residents in their 70s are extremely polarized.

Some pay $10,000 a month to live in Hawaii in a nursing home

Social Security （ Pension ） Some live with a couple or family of three paying a monthly rental close to the amount for one person.

It is best not to choose to be a housewife as much as possible, considering the possibility of living alone or divorced in old age.

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#12
  • 疑問３
  • 2023/10/15 (Sun) 21:55
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I've always wondered why it is that famous women, businessmen and rich women
come to Hawaii and fall in love with and marry guys who have no money at all and just surf and play
？ ？.

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#13
  • Hama Ayu
  • 2023/10/15 (Sun) 22:40
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#12 Mr. Question 3

If a woman has enough money, it's easier for a man to be devoted to her.
In Japan, women are more likely to devote themselves, but in the U.S. it tends to be the other way around.
Regardless of who makes more money, the man or the woman.

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#14

There are many wives on the mainland who are raising their children as full-time homemakers. They are more financially capable than in Hawaii.
If you are married and want to be a full-time housewife, you may want to look for one on the mainland rather than in Hawaii.

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#18
  • あかさたな
  • 2023/10/16 (Mon) 23:02
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#14 Economy

If the mainland had a climate like Hawaii, Japanese food, jobs, and
no racism, many Japanese would move here.

In my work, I talk to people from many different countries,
and many people from all over the world choose Hawaii for their honeymoon.
The warm weather and beaches attract people to move there.

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#19
  • ７２７
  • 2023/10/17 (Tue) 00:24
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How can I meet a rich girl ？?

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#20
  • ヒモ男dism
  • 2023/10/17 (Tue) 03:55
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＃ 19

Oh, I'd like to know that too!

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#21
  • ハワイファイブオー
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  • 2023/10/17 (Tue) 14:20
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>>#19&20I think rich girls like
white me.

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#22
  • 便乗
  • 2023/10/18 (Wed) 11:12
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#19 #20 #21

I would say girls with earning power, not rich girls.

Everyone has different tastes, but I don't think anyone likes Lazy boys. If you get into a profession where you can make money, you will meet someone there. You'll be lucky if you find a divorcee or a single.

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#23
  • ららら
  • 2023/10/28 (Sat) 22:03
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I can't live in Hawaii when the rent is this high and the food is getting more expensive.

If I get a salary, put gas in the car, pay rent
and go shopping at Don Quijote, it will all be gone.

I will do my best to find myself a rich woman.

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#24
  • Nicole Rich
  • 2023/10/29 (Sun) 16:47
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#23 LaLaLaKun

Instead of looking for a rich woman
you could change jobs and find a job where you can make money and if you can make money yourself
you can choose your woman.

There are many Hawaii men who rely on their girlfriends and wives, which is why
there are so many divorces. If you want to continue to live in Hawaii, don't complain and earn like a man.

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#25
  • 未来
  • 2023/10/29 (Sun) 23:10
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Why do so many Hawaiian boys have their girlfriends or wives paying their rent ？?

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#26
  • グリーンカード
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  • 2023/10/30 (Mon) 06:22
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That's because most Hawaiian men are lazy
Japanese women would marry a deadbeat for a green card.

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#27
  • P
  • 2023/10/30 (Mon) 10:01
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In Hawaii, men who think nothing of it, play and have no savings are more popular than men who work hard and diligently ！.

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#27
  • 類友
  • 2023/10/30 (Mon) 11:18
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#27 P

So you get married, regret it, and get divorced.

You finally meet a man who makes the same or more money than you and remarry. Japanese women.

If you live in Hawaii, there are many Hawaii men looking for Japanese women. Regardless of nationality.

Japanese women are popular not only with Asian, Middle Eastern, and mixed, but also with white and black men, so good luck Japanese men ！ ！.

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#29

Are white men still popular these days ？
I don't think so in Hawaii.
I feel that there are surprisingly many people who remarry Japanese after divorcing white men.

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#30
  • second
  • 2023/11/19 (Sun) 18:14
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＃ 29 Ichi-san

I guess it's a matter of fate and preference.

Some people have a Japanese husband the first time in Japan and a white husband the second time in Hawaii, and a black husband.

Some people are also white the second time and black the second time.

I have never met a Japanese man living in Hawaii whose wife is not Japanese （ White Black Asian other ）.

I still wonder if many Japanese men are looking for Japanese women.

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#31
  • Two
  • 2023/11/19 (Sun) 22:55
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Yes, I agree.
Japanese women have married and remarried to people of various races, not only Caucasians.

Japanese men have only met Japanese women who are wives.
If there are any men here in Vivinavi who have wives of non-Japanese race
I would be happy to hear various opinions.

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#32

Dear Second and Two

Thank you for your reply. I learned a lot.
It is a marriage, isn't it?

But have you married or remarried a white or black man
and has it lasted ？ long?

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