Vivinavi : Hawaii : (United States) Hawaii

• COCO
• 2022/08/20 (Sat) 23:00
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This is a small island, so sometimes I bump into people I don't like, and I don't like that either.

The day before, I met someone I didn't like, so I greeted her as a minimum manner, but she didn't answer me.
Some women can't even greet you back if you greet them in the least manner. I just hope I don't encounter people I don't like in small Hawaii.

• zebra
• 2022/08/22 (Mon) 13:45
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I don't know if this is the equivalent of a mean Japanese person.

This was my first experience in Hawaii.

Mr. A wanted to divorce me, but he didn't because he is not financially independent.

I don't know if that was the reason, but I thought

she had completely gone back to Japan because we had been getting along well, but suddenly we lost contact. But Hawaii is a small place, so we bumped into each other by chance. We had a normal conversation.

But after that, we lost contact.

Is it because he is mentally weak or is he manic-depressive? Is he jealous because I seem happy? Is this attitude because you are not happy? I have never met people like this in Japan

so I am quite surprised.　

Have you also had this experience ？?

• チョコ
• 2022/08/22 (Mon) 15:54
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Zebra

I had someone like that

It's strange that you were so close and then suddenly you lost touch. There are probably a lot of mentally unstable women in Hawaii.
I have the same experience, so I understand.

People who don't get along with their husbands may have something in particular.
I know someone who hates her husband and is so mean to him that she won't even let his parents see their grandchildren.
On the contrary, I am lucky that he left me alone.

• zebra
• 2022/08/22 (Mon) 19:12
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#16 Choco

Thank you very much for your experience.

Yes, I agree.

I want her to be happy and I hope she can get divorced soon so she can be independent and live on her own.

There is nothing worse than living with someone who no longer loves you.

I hope you meet someone wonderful before you are old enough to be called a grandmother.

Don't get a divorce for your mother's sake, but live your life without regrets.

• HI
• mail
• 2022/08/23 (Tue) 15:48
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On this island, friends are always fluctuating.
Many Japanese-American women in the U.S. are winsome, so
they are clear that if they have a negative element, they will leave others,
otherwise they will go out with them.
It is easy and good to go out with people you meet from time to time.

• zebra
• 2022/08/23 (Tue) 16:25
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A woman I knew in Hawaii died of cancer a few years ago, even though she was only in her fifties.

I could only think that it was a disaster for her to be so patient.

If you feel stressed, get a divorce or have fun with friends. I regretted that something could not have been done earlier.

Life seemed long and short to her.

I hope this friend, whom I met in passing, moves on quickly so that it doesn't happen.

Mr. HI
Why is it that if there is a negative element, they will leave the others ？
Maybe they are too proud ？
If you can't be open minded, you will get what you deserve.
It may be easy to be comfortable with people you meet from time to time, but
it's like a superficial relationship, and it's lonely.

• HI
• mail
• 2022/08/23 (Tue) 18:39
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>>zebra

I envy you Lord for having friends who are not just upper class
and who don't mind the details.
Unfortunately, I am not blessed with friends on this island,
and I have never encountered a friend
who could keep a "don't tell" policy, which is common among women.
So, I keep my relationship with them without giving details.
It's easier later on and I don't get caught up in the "she heard it too". It sounds lonely, but I feel that in Hawaii, where it is a small island and someone is connected to someone somewhere, it is a good idea.

I feel a difficulty in socializing that I did not feel in Japan.
I am sure there are a lot of people with free time in Hawaii.

• HonoluluWaikiki
• 2022/08/23 (Tue) 20:27
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It is not only Japanese, but there are some.

I think you should avoid such people.

I don't like Japanese society, so I stay away from them.
My surroundings are mostly LOCOs or Filipinos.

• 空
• 2022/08/23 (Tue) 23:11
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Hawaii is a small state, so it seems to me that there is a high level of isolation from strange Japanese people. One of the women around me gave birth to her second child at home in the water because she was dissatisfied with the hospital delivery of her first child. She told me that if she gave birth in a hospital, she would be put into a system that suited the hospital or given an intravenous drip that she did not understand, so she talked about spiritual underwater birth instead of hospital birth. There are many people on this island who force their opinions on others and are like rat race.

• Q
• 2022/08/24 (Wed) 09:53
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I sympathize with Sky. Doterra of essential oils is persistent. I'm getting off track with the mean Japanese, though.
I don't know where they are connected to anyone, so I have trouble saying no strongly enough.

• zebra
• 2022/08/24 (Wed) 12:47
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I think Japanese people living abroad, not only in Hawaii, are unique.

Doterra is a favorite.

Everyone's tastes are different, so whether it's childbirth or network business,

you should adopt whichever you like.

I will listen once, but if I am not interested, I will clearly decline.

• Q
• 2022/08/24 (Wed) 13:16
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The person who recommends my doterra sometimes invites me to do something, but I always end up talking about doterra in the end. This time, I will clearly say that I think Doterra's products are good, but I will never become a member.

• HI
• mail
• 2022/08/25 (Thu) 11:03
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Lately, there are many people who are naturalists
and that's good, but
there are many people who are under a lot of pressure to encourage it.
I get tired just listening to them.
I don't enjoy eating with people who are
too fake stoic.
I wasn't like that before.
I sometimes get sick of excesse, aroma oil, natural items, and food
.

• ココメロン
• 2022/08/25 (Thu) 16:12
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HI

There are so many people who think Hawaiian, spiritual and naturalistic. I am not interested in either, and I agree with HI-san.
It can't be helped that everyone has a different way of thinking, but the rate of Japanese people in Hawaii is much higher than that of Japanese people living in Japan, and I get tired every time I hear them
They talk about coloring, additives, and only giving healthy snacks for kids. They say that they only give their kids organic snacks, bananas, apples, and fruits, and never give them chocolate. I'm very careful.

• 共感
• 2022/08/26 (Fri) 12:12
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Rodin and........ I've been invited many times because
it's the first time I've been to Japan
and I'm not sure how many times I've been asked to go.
They intentionally lure you in with parties that look luxurious
They make it look friendly, but in fact it's a bit of a mess.
I wonder
if they don't have to be in it, they should be able to get along
with someone who is not conscious of their own interests
and who can get along well with them.

• HI
• mail
• 2022/08/28 (Sun) 08:15
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>>Mr. Cocomelon, I sympathize with you
I have the same experience
so I read it with a big nod of my head.
I really sympathized with you.
Thank you very much.

• ぽの
• 2022/09/02 (Fri) 23:44
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>>#24 Doterra(MLM Business) was warned by the FDA, wasn't it? If you look it up, you will find it in one shot. A friend of mine said that other mommy friends were brainwashed by doterra and that she was in danger too.

Elsewhere, there is a private aroma oil seller in Hawaii who sells spiritual beauty products ？ that are powered by Hawaiian sunlight and say that the vibrations … are good, and I thought it would be nice if they sold them normally.
Of course, it's up to the individual.

Let us watch the MLM business from the sidelines.

• ぽの
• 2022/09/03 (Sat) 00:06
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I met my first mean person at work. Like Topy, I was left out of the group.
I was working diligently and hard, but suddenly he stopped talking to me properly one way or the other, and I could no longer communicate with him, not even to communicate what was necessary for work. His attitude changes depending on his mood that day. The other employees noticed it and warned him about his attitude, but he didn't seem to improve.
I realized once again that human nature is important in a workplace where teamwork is required, and I left early for the first time because I was not suited for the job and the manager had no management skills. I was left out of the group, but I managed to spend my time with them by separating myself from them and saying that they introduced themselves to my humanity. People have their own habits, but I keep my distance from people with big attitudes and big mouths, such as self-proclaimed local Japanese, Japanese who have been immigrants for "a little" longer, people with various connections, etc.

• あおナビ
• 2022/09/06 (Tue) 23:32
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Aloha
＞ As I was looking at it, I felt that your conversation itself that is going on here represents the nature of Japanese people.

I've exchanged contact information with someone I got to know through a friend without involving that person
many times in my life ． ． ． was this wrong … ( ; ∀ ;\1863>)

• ビビっと
• mail
• 2022/09/07 (Wed) 20:17
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As the title says,
Japanese-only workplaces in Hawaii
always have a mean person like the owner
and the rest are made up of people who don't disobey.
I worked many jobs, but
all the Japanese-only workplaces were the same.
Everyone turns a blind eye so as not to bring fire down on themselves.
It seems like they are always looking for people to work.