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#1
  • saikon
  • mail
  • 2021/08/27 18:53

My divorced ex-husband is remarrying. The partner is a non-Japanese Asian. The woman is also living in Hawaii for her second marriage and is a green card holder.
My ex-husband has now hired a lawyer to change his sponsor, but he has not paid me for my coat order alamony.
He has ignored my requests. Can someone like that be a sponsor ??

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#4

I know it is futile to rely on this, but I am posting this because I am wondering where the point of a court order is. I feel empty of the past, having spent years in court for nothing meaningful. So this is how it is. I learned a lot.

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#5

You are not relying on them, but your ex-husband's obligation. There is also a court order out there, so if you don't pay it, you will be in contempt of court.
Sue him, that's the best thing you can do. Your ex-husband thinks you can't do anything. In other words, he is taking advantage of you.

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#6

Thank you DeeDee.
You're right, it's our duty, our obligation !
I'm sure there are many others like you. No need to blame yourself
Thank you very much.

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#7
  • coco
  • 2021/08/30 (Mon) 22:53
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What can you do now ? What should you do ? Try to do as much as you can !
I had a lot of help from a social worker in California over 20 years ago.
At the time I was so worried about what was ahead of me, but I have become stronger through my experiences 😅
please do your best !

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#8

Thank you Coco and others for taking the time to speak with us. It gave me a chance to look at myself again.
I think it is more satisfying to regret doing something than not doing it.
My shoulders feel lighter.
Thank you very much
I will close here.

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