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How is everyone's happiness in Hawaii ？?

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#1
  • Hauʻoli
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  • 2025/03/16 15:30

If anyone says I am happy, please let me know.

In my opinion, it is easier to be unhappy than in the past.
In the past = no things, no people, no friends = no wonder = happy with something = happy

Now = there are things (convenient machines like smartphones), lots of people (you can connect with people anytime via SNS, matching apps, etc.) = always have the ideal things. (You can always connect with people on social networking sites, etc., and you can choose as many people as you want on matching apps, etc.) = I think this is the main reason for the low level of happiness among people today.

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#2

Happiness.

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#3
  • 趣味人808
  • 2025/03/18 (Tue) 10:15
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I'm in my 50s now and I'm the happiest I've ever been.
In my 40's, I started to cut off all ties with people who made me feel that I hated myself when I was with them, and I have been really happy.
Now that my children have flown the nest and I no longer have child-related relationships, I am enjoying my days with friends with whom I can share my interests and hobbies.

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#4
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  • 2025/03/20 (Thu) 19:34
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I am in my 60's and happy now.
People feel unhappy from comparing themselves with others.
If you can love yourself, you can feel happy.
Too much and it's just selfishness ….

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#5
  • リラックマ
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  • 2025/03/21 (Fri) 14:52
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I also wondered
if I would be lonely and less happy ？ after my children left the nest, but ，
I made new acquaintances and friends through hobbies, and
my days are busier and more fulfilling than ever before.
I felt refreshed after taking early retirement from my job.
I am thankful for my health every day.
The best thing is not to be dependent on the Internet.

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#6
  • Ginger
  • 2025/03/23 (Sun) 11:08
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I agree with #3, #4, and #5, the Net is a fast way to get connected, but it's also a fast way to get disconnected. It's like after watching a big firework show
you hit it off and it was a mistake ｡
my friend's daughter is getting married to a guy she met on the Net from another state, so she sends her luggage and even her wedding dress. We had a fight over a trivial matter and the luggage was sent back to THE END. When I saw the returned white wedding dress hanging on the door, I was so shocked. My hand went to my forehead and I had to think about it. I felt pain, but I was glad that I didn't have to drag the wound with me. It was a great Speed feeling. So this is Net
I can't do it. I am enjoying the happiness of living in Hawai'i by growing plants in my garden and expanding my roots through water💦growing in the course of a day within my range.

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#7
  • kalaimoku
  • 2025/03/23 (Sun) 13:21
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#6 Ginger
I'm sorry to hear about your friend's daughter.
Perhaps she did not have a green card
I doubt it ？
Very few men want to sponsor her, so it is easier for a green card holder or
US Citizen woman to get married or remarried.

Even if you get married through friends, pickups, or in-house marriages, you will get divorced, so
I don't think it matters how you meet people.

For couples who have been married once unsuccessfully
it is better to live together and then remarry
without risk to both parties.

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#8

#7 kalaimoku-san
My friend's daughter is a US Citizen with an American father and is fluent in Japanese. My friend's partner is a Japanese IT professional who has lived in the US since he was a child. Later ， she met a local man
because of her dog and they are dating (he was a sales clerk during his break time who was worried about her dog in the car while she was shopping with her dog in the car with the window rolled down a little).

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