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I hate Hawaii.

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#1
  • Crawfish
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  • 2021/11/11 08:48

We moved to Oahu because of my husband's job.
I hate Hawaii because of the high prices, the bugs, the small land, the lack of four seasons, the year-round heat, the fact that there is nothing to do but go to the ocean or mountains, etc., and the lack of stores on the main land.
I am not interested in nature, so I don't go to the ocean or mountains.
I knew these things before I moved here, but when I actually lived here, everything was beyond my imagination in a bad way. It is really hard and depressing every day.

I don't understand why everyone is so fascinated with Hawaii and want to move to Hawaii ？
I have no idea.
Every day is hell.
Every day I long for the day I can leave Hawaii.

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#7
  • Crawfish
  • 2021/11/11 (Thu) 18:20
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It takes a few years to get used to it.
I have researched Hawaiian culture, customs, etc.
I know what shaka means, but I feel uncomfortable when I see Japanese people using it.
I also tried to learn the Hawaiian language.
That was the basis of my post. I have been able to positively enjoy wherever I live, so this is the first time in my life that I have had this experience and I am surprised at myself.
I really can't find anything good about it except that it is close to Japan.
I am discussing this with my husband.
Can you tell me how to relax and if there is anything other than a trip to the mainland ？
I can't think of anything else.

I didn't know this is not a place for negative remarks or straight talk.
I was in a dire situation this morning and wrote what was on my mind.
My apologies.

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#8
  • コロナが大好き
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  • 2021/11/11 (Thu) 18:26
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Get the hell out of Hawaii before I apologize ｡.

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#9
  • Crawfish
  • 2021/11/11 (Thu) 18:31
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Yes, I can't wait to get out.
You can't even apologize here.

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#11
  • ビタミンD
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  • 2021/11/11 (Thu) 19:04
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If you can't find a way to relax, other than traveling to the mainland, then you should get married separately and move to the mainland ？ If the cost of living is a problem, then you should get a job too. Thinking this and that is not a solution, and you will just repeat your mental problems no matter where you go~.

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#12
  • ビタミンE
  • 2021/11/11 (Thu) 19:06
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I am sorry to hear that you are feeling this way, as I did not come to Hawaii by choice either.
Now, speaking of relaxation, I'm afraid I may not be able to help you.

I am afraid of meeting people under Corona, so
I do sand bathing only for the lower half of my body at Ala Moana Beach. It's pretty funny.

I also do Hatake. I do more per person. LOL

My friend is a college student by correspondence.

Whatever.
It's important to laugh.
Please be conscious and find a way to enjoy yourself.

In a way, what you received here is a baptism of Hawaii Nippon Mura - lol.
Good luck ！

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