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For girls who are in the process of getting married

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#1
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  • 2023/10/01 10:47

I am a woman living in Hawaii.

I heard from a male friend of mine who is engaged to be married.

He said that girls who are Japanese tourists and are engaged to be married don't know too much about the high cost of living in Hawaii.

You shouldn't say you want to get married, move to Hawaii and become a housewife.

No matter how beautiful you are, how healthy you are, how good your character is, marriage is a life.

Most couples living in Hawaii work together. Even the wives of doctors.

The cost of living is 2-3 times that of Japan. Japan is the only developed country where prices and incomes have remained almost the same for decades. Hawaii is America, so men and women are equal. It is not uncommon to find couples where the wife earns more than the husband.

If you want to have children, you should earn your own money as well as your husband's.

If your husband has already paid off the mortgage, that's still fine, but if you both buy the house and pay for it together, you can pay it off faster and have more credit in your own history in the future.

If the husband dies first, the wife won't even get a survivor's pension until she is in her 60s.

Too few companies will hire a Japanese woman in her 60s who has never worked in Hawaii at all.

Start working in your 20s, 30s, and 40s to gain experience. I used to be a tourist living in Japan, so I would be very happy if I could be of help.

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#5
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  • 2023/10/03 (Tue) 17:17
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#4 CBP OFFICER

Thanks for the information.
If you are deported, you won't be able to enter the US anymore.

If there is such a dangerous possibility, it would be better to get married outside the US. You and your husband should come to Hawaii for your honeymoon.

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#6
  • 夕焼け
  • 2023/10/03 (Tue) 18:47
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Two couples I know met and got married on a matching app called Bumble.
They met and got married less than a year ago.
Of course I am not a housewife, I work. I think the Japanese ideal of Hawaii is from a tourist's point of view. It is a world where a cucumber costs 350 yen.

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#7
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  • 2023/10/03 (Tue) 19:18
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#6 Sunset

Thanks for the info.
My friends who live in Hawaii have also remarried
through various matching apps.
Long distance relationship between Japan and Hawaii is difficult, but if you can live together and have compatibility
and Japanese woman has green card or citizen, it will be quick.

In yen, a cucumber is 350 yen ！
A dozen eggs $ 6 is 900 yen ！ ！

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#8
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  • 2023/10/08 (Sun) 23:35
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Women with money to spare should live in US with an investor Visa before
getting married.

Mieko Hanada did so and got married again in Hawaii with a civilian.

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#9
  • ハワイファイブオー
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  • 2023/10/10 (Tue) 23:24
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Matching apps are an effective way to meet people, but
even if you have a partner, you will come back to them.
Marriage is not the final chapter.
Look at the person carefully before making a decision.
Surprisingly, the divorce rate among the Japanese on this island is high.

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