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I have almost no friends in Hawaii.

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#1
  • コオリ
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  • 2024/05/19 00:00

I have lived in Hawaii for over 10 years and now have only one friend. She is not Japanese, cute, very sociable and has many friends, and I only see her once or twice a year. I don't feel lonely because I have a husband and a child, but sometimes I feel lonely. I don't have many friends in Japan, and if I lived somewhere other than Hawaii, I might have lost touch with them.
I don't have many friends, so is it likely that I have a personality problem and say hurtful things to others without knowing it ？?

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#2

I don't have any in particular either. At most, I talk to about two people from where I used to work
occasionally on line. I've never bothered with them. It's troublesome. I have a few friends in Japan, but I only see one when I go back.
My Japanese friends have been friends since I was a student.
I think you can't make friends after you become an adult unless you really
want to be friends from the bottom of your heart.

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#2

I forgot to mention that I have also lived here for over 10 years.

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#4
  • ハワイ暮らし
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  • 2024/05/19 (Sun) 15:23
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I have lived here for over 20 years and
I get asked "who are your Hawaiian friends ？" and I think
well who are they ？.

I've lived here for over 20 years, so I only know a lot of people.
However, even people I considered friends at the time can change their relationship with me as time goes by. Especially after the Corona Disaster, many people change their jobs or circumstances, so it can be difficult to get to know them.
On this island, it's easiest to keep a wide and shallow circle.
It's not good to go too deep, from my experience.

On the other hand, I am interested to know what kind of relationships people with many friends have
.
Like what kind of topics and how far do they talk about personal things.
I hope most of the girls' talk is not gossip about someone they don't know.

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