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What I think of the Manoa family's impossible heartbreak.

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#1
  • miki
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  • 2024/03/13 17:01

On Sunday, there was a case of forced suicide of a family of five in Manoa, where a husband took his own life after murdering his Japanese wife and stabbing their three children.

The husband, a chiropractor, was $90,000 in debt and had not paid his taxes.

In Hawaii, it is common to see groups of Japanese wives, and luxury people are often clustered in such groups, and even among them, there are often Japanese who are vain and show off their sparkling family life inside and outside the home ( In Instagram )
If you have a lot of assets, you can play the role of a "real" person as much as you want, but if you associate with such a person, it is inevitable that you will have a financial ruin soon. I don't think he likes luxury.
His daughter is also a student at Iolani School, and she was going to go to college in the Mainland in the spring, so he would have had to spend a lot of money. If so, why couldn't she have gone to a public school? ? I also don't understand why she would send her daughter to Iolani, which is very expensive and she has a lot of debt.

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#5

I agree.
I can't help but think that if I had lived a life that suited my financial resources, this would not have happened. It is really sad. I pray for the repose of your soul.

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#6
  • Rino
  • 2024/03/13 (Wed) 22:53
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I think it is wrong to speculate and think this way and speak ill of your husband when no one knows the real reason why the family is no longer together. I certainly don't agree with you that he took your wife and children away from you. I don't want to use the word "unconvincing. But no matter what we say, no one will ever know the truth. I just pray that the family can rest in peace in the sky.

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#7
  • coco
  • 2024/03/14 (Thu) 00:00
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#6 Rino

Even if she was a vain, spendthrift wife,
the husband should not have killed the whole family. It is common for criminals to become more violent the more kind people are.
It is safer to have communication where you can say what you want to say to each other
without stress because you are afraid that what you have accumulated will explode. That's right. May your family live happily in the afterlife.
May you rest in peace.

I fear for the emotional well being of your three children's friends. I am afraid that it will be too shocking for them to accept.

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#9

As I recall, they said on the news that as far as the $90,000 debt is concerned, it has been paid ….

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#10
  • cutie
  • 2024/03/14 (Thu) 12:30
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It is true that it is not good to talk about your husband only on speculation. For example, it is not impossible that he had a mental illness because of his treatment of his vain wife and children. We don't know what happened to others, so we have to leave it to the police. Of course, the basic premise is that forcible mind-control is not acceptable, not even for the final shodan. It is certain that people who do this kind of thing are not in a proper state of mind, so if possible, you should have divorced quickly before that happens.
Or, they should have just run away from the debt.
The lender is wrong and should accept the risk.
I wonder if Hawaii has a bailout system like Japan, such as bankruptcy. If so, it is not a good place.

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