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For girls who are in the process of getting married

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#1
  • Allure
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  • 2023/10/01 10:47

I am a woman living in Hawaii.

I heard from a male friend of mine who is engaged to be married.

He said that girls who are Japanese tourists and are engaged to be married don't know too much about the high cost of living in Hawaii.

You shouldn't say you want to get married, move to Hawaii and become a housewife.

No matter how beautiful you are, how healthy you are, how good your character is, marriage is a life.

Most couples living in Hawaii work together. Even the wives of doctors.

The cost of living is 2-3 times that of Japan. Japan is the only developed country where prices and incomes have remained almost the same for decades. Hawaii is America, so men and women are equal. It is not uncommon to find couples where the wife earns more than the husband.

If you want to have children, you should earn your own money as well as your husband's.

If your husband has already paid off the mortgage, that's still fine, but if you both buy the house and pay for it together, you can pay it off faster and have more credit in your own history in the future.

If the husband dies first, the wife won't even get a survivor's pension until she is in her 60s.

Too few companies will hire a Japanese woman in her 60s who has never worked in Hawaii at all.

Start working in your 20s, 30s, and 40s to gain experience. I used to be a tourist living in Japan, so I would be very happy if I could be of help.

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#10
  • Allure
  • 2023/10/11 (Wed) 09:56
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#9 Hawaii Five-O

Thank you for your comment.

This is probably because Hawaii has more international marriages than Japanese couples.

Some couples quit together when they find a partner, but

please be careful because sometimes both men and women are registered by separated married couples.

I have seen many times that both men and women have "No married people allowed" in their profiles. I have seen this many times.

It's fine if you are just looking for fun, but for people who are serious about finding a partner, it makes sense to avoid wasting their time.

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#11
  • 便乗
  • 2023/10/15 (Sun) 12:32
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Hawaii residents in their 70s are extremely polarized.

Some pay $10,000 a month to live in Hawaii in a nursing home

Social Security （ Pension ） Some live with a couple or family of three paying a monthly rental close to the amount for one person.

It is best not to choose to be a housewife as much as possible, considering the possibility of living alone or divorced in old age.

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#12
  • 疑問３
  • 2023/10/15 (Sun) 21:55
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I've always wondered why it is that famous women, businessmen and rich women
come to Hawaii and fall in love with and marry guys who have no money at all and just surf and play
？ ？.

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#13
  • Hama Ayu
  • 2023/10/15 (Sun) 22:40
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#12 Mr. Question 3

If a woman has enough money, it's easier for a man to be devoted to her.
In Japan, women are more likely to devote themselves, but in the U.S. it tends to be the other way around.
Regardless of who makes more money, the man or the woman.

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#14

There are many wives on the mainland who are raising their children as full-time homemakers. They are more financially capable than in Hawaii.
If you are married and want to be a full-time housewife, you may want to look for one on the mainland rather than in Hawaii.

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