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For girls who are in the process of getting married

Relationship / Friendship
#1
  • Allure
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  • 2023/10/01 10:47

I am a woman living in Hawaii.

I heard from a male friend of mine who is engaged to be married.

He said that girls who are Japanese tourists and are engaged to be married don't know too much about the high cost of living in Hawaii.

You shouldn't say you want to get married, move to Hawaii and become a housewife.

No matter how beautiful you are, how healthy you are, how good your character is, marriage is a life.

Most couples living in Hawaii work together. Even the wives of doctors.

The cost of living is 2-3 times that of Japan. Japan is the only developed country where prices and incomes have remained almost the same for decades. Hawaii is America, so men and women are equal. It is not uncommon to find couples where the wife earns more than the husband.

If you want to have children, you should earn your own money as well as your husband's.

If your husband has already paid off the mortgage, that's still fine, but if you both buy the house and pay for it together, you can pay it off faster and have more credit in your own history in the future.

If the husband dies first, the wife won't even get a survivor's pension until she is in her 60s.

Too few companies will hire a Japanese woman in her 60s who has never worked in Hawaii at all.

Start working in your 20s, 30s, and 40s to gain experience. I used to be a tourist living in Japan, so I would be very happy if I could be of help.

This text has been translated by auto-translation. There may be a slight difference between the original text and the translation. (Original Language: 日本語)

#2
  • Diamond Head
  • 2023/10/01 (Sun) 13:08
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I am a male in a marriage. I sympathize with you very much.
I have exchanged emails and lines with several girls living in Japan
and had them come to Hawaii.
Each time, I felt the same thing.

Men ＝ Work and prepare money
Women ＝ Cook and wait at home ＋ Want to be taken out for fun ＋ Want to be bought something ＋ Want to dress up and eat at restaurants regularly
Most of them didn't think about the cost of living in Hawaii or the cost of living in Hawaii
I stopped marriage activity with girls living in Japan.

I would like to find one among those who have come to Hawaii to experience life and have difficulties.

This text has been translated by auto-translation. There may be a slight difference between the original text and the translation. (Original Language: 日本語)

#3
  • Allure
  • 2023/10/01 (Sun) 16:22
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#2 Diamond Head

Hi ！ Thanks for the reply. I didn't know that Japanese men share your opinion ！ ！

My friend is a white male.

You can find Japanese women in Hawaii, especially if they are Japanese.

Long distance relationship between Japan and Hawaii is not easy.

I hope you can find a match with a woman who works for Green Card or Citizen.

This text has been translated by auto-translation. There may be a slight difference between the original text and the translation. (Original Language: 日本語)

#4

A number of Japanese women have been deported after coming to meet men they met on dating apps.
Immigration officers will look at your LINE and photo library.
They can easily find out your credit card number and the name of the credit card you used to buy your airline ticket.
A woman who was deported on YouTube is being slammed by Hollimon and others.
Single women should not underestimate the importance of entering Hawaii.

This text has been translated by auto-translation. There may be a slight difference between the original text and the translation. (Original Language: 日本語)

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