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I'm annoyed at my friends who can't report back to me.

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#1
  • Makiki
  • 2021/07/12 19:20

She is a relatively new friend whom I met after moving to Hawaii, but whenever I have a question （ I want to ask her, such as how to write in English or how to do something ）, she asks me a lot of questions at all hours. I try to help her by texting her questions, but she never reads my questions about her specialty. When I helped her with school procedures for her relatives, it took a long time for no reason even though I asked for a report on the results.

I understand that I am an idiot for responding so earnestly, and I know I shouldn't have high expectations, but I feel like I'm not doing enough. I don't think I'm doing anything to make people hate me, but I'm feeling ashamed that I'm being taken advantage of. I would like to know if you have had similar experiences and still continue to be friends ？ I would like to know how to casually keep my distance from them even if they ask me questions.

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#11

Hawaii
Thank you for your comment. Yes, I agree. Ignoring is the best.

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#11

Lee
Thank you for your comment.
I commented without logging in, so my reply was not reflected and I apologize for making you feel uncomfortable.

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#13

Rainbow
Thank you for your comments. Thanks to your advice, I was able to clear my mind. As for my friend here, we met through the introduction of someone who has been a great help to me, and I had hoped to build a good relationship with her if possible, but since we are not going to cut ties, I would like to maintain moderation in our relationship.

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#14
  • リー
  • 2021/07/19 (Mon) 12:07
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Makiki
I commented without looking at your reply properly. My apologies.

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#15

Lee
Thank you for your kind comments.

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