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What do you live for ？?

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#1
  • Tom
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  • 2021/03/04 17:59

People all over the world long to live in Hawaii
but when I look at people living in Hawaii, they don't always look happy and dissatisfied.
I think it's because they are doing things they don't want to do to keep up with the high cost of living and making money to make ends meet. For example, even if you have 99% of good things in your daily life, if you have even 1% of bad things, you will not be happy. I think people are like that.
For example, enjoying a trip for a few days, distracting yourself with leaves, or driving a car or motorcycle down the highway won't solve the problem.
The only way to do that is to eliminate all pain in our daily lives.
Don't you think so ？?

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#2

I was born into this world by God's will.
I enjoy my life every day and have no troubles
Why don't you accept God and see? Life will change until you die ｡

You will die one day too

Amen.

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#3
  • ホットミルク
  • 2021/03/05 (Fri) 08:57
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I don't think so.

I am unemployed, I am going through menopause, I am worried about my aging Japanese parents, and I am not getting along with my husband very well, but I don't think I am unhappy. On the contrary, I am happy there.

[99% good, 1% bad]
This is super happy ^_^

Tom, are you a perfectionist ？

I am in my mid 50s.
I have lived my life and I think that no one is 100% happy and satisfied.
I have some kind of trouble or dissatisfaction with financial matters, illness, child rearing, marital problems, nursing care, work, relationships, etc.
But does that mean we all live our lives thinking we are unhappy? ？
There is also a sense of fulfillment that comes from overcoming hardships and harsh realities.
If you live your life, you will encounter many obstacles.
It's not all good things.
I think you will feel better if you accept the many things that come your way.
I think you can get a sense of happiness by being mindful.

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#4
  • コロナが悪い
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  • 2021/03/05 (Fri) 12:21
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I live to die.

Tomo is a bitch.

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#5
  • ばかを相手にしないで
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  • 2021/03/05 (Fri) 12:26
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Recently, there has been a sudden influx of people starting up strange topics, but those who are receiving unemployment insurance in Hawaii should try to refrain from responding to them. It might be better to think, "It is fine for people who do not live in Hawaii not to understand the reality of the situation in Hawaii, which was built on tourism income. Of course, we understand your feelings of wanting to say something to the person who started the topic from the top. However, if you respond to each one of them, there will be more and more lonely people who start similar topics and want attention, and the topics will be cluttered up. And the number of bystanders who just read for the fun of it will also increase.

Rather than spending energy reacting to someone whose true identity you do not know, it would be enough to take care of yourself, your partner, your family, your friends, your colleagues, in other words, your daily life that is right in front of you. Thank you in advance.

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#6
  • 焼き魚は大根おろしで
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  • 2021/03/05 (Fri) 12:56
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Speech is free.
Especially at the moment, most of you are living crippled by the Corona disaster.
And this is an exchange forum.
You can discuss your daily annoyances here ？
If you don't like it, just go through it. I believe that life is rich including unfortunate events. I feel that misfortunes make people grow and become stronger. A life with only happiness may be a boring life.

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#7

Read the entire statement "Everyone is only thinking about money" in the LA Exchange Plaza.

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#10
  • Tom
  • 2021/03/06 (Sat) 19:20
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I do not want the young people who will live in the future to experience even 1% of the pain.
That is why adults should not force the illusion that "if you endure unpleasant things, you will be rewarded" on young people.
And if you feel any pain in your life, please tell us about it in various places.
The less pain you feel, the happier you will be. If things continue as they are now, our descendants will also grow up experiencing pain, and they will all be sad people who mistakenly think that experiencing stimulation is happiness.

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#11

Grilled fish with grated radish

Thank you for the follow-up.
But wouldn't it be more interesting to take a step forward and move toward the goal of eliminating suffering from this world?
"It's life that has misfortunes too, so it can't be helped." "It's life that has misfortunes, so it can't be helped," and not taking any action would be boring.

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#12
  • 焼き魚は大根おろしで
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  • 2021/03/06 (Sat) 21:48
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tomo

"It's not that we say that life is full of misfortunes and nothing can be done about it." "It's life to have misfortunes.
I accept that life is what it is and look for a way to break through.
If you sit still in the midst of unhappiness, nothing will start.
But if life without pain means avoiding it, that is not the way I feel about life.
I guess it's interesting because it's different for everyone.

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#14

Mr. Grilled fish with grated radish
Yes, I agree. I think everyone has a different outlook on life. I had a past where I was restless, seeking only stimulation, so I thought it would be more relaxing to focus on eliminating pain rather than that. By the way, I did not intend to use different names for Tom and Tomo, but for some reason my name sometimes became Tomo. Other than that, the name is not me.

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