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What I think of the Manoa family's impossible heartbreak.

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#1
  • miki
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  • 2024/03/13 17:01

On Sunday, there was a case of forced suicide of a family of five in Manoa, where a husband took his own life after murdering his Japanese wife and stabbing their three children.

The husband, a chiropractor, was $90,000 in debt and had not paid his taxes.

In Hawaii, it is common to see groups of Japanese wives, and luxury people are often clustered in such groups, and even among them, there are often Japanese who are vain and show off their sparkling family life inside and outside the home （ In Instagram ）
If you have a lot of assets, you can play the role of a "real" person as much as you want, but if you associate with such a person, it is inevitable that you will have a financial ruin soon. I don't think he likes luxury.
His daughter is also a student at Iolani School, and she was going to go to college in the Mainland in the spring, so he would have had to spend a lot of money. If so, why couldn't she have gone to a public school? ？ I also don't understand why she would send her daughter to Iolani, which is very expensive and she has a lot of debt.

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#11
  • さてさて
  • 2024/03/14 (Thu) 13:23
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No one really knows
"Even if she was a vain and spendthrift wife,"
and
"it's not impossible that she had a mental illness because of the way she treated her vain wife and children,"
and
"I can't help thinking that if she had lived up to her financial resources
and
"Why didn't they live up to their income?"
and 、、、、

How can you judge us as if you knew everything about our family? ？

It looks like you are pretending to have sympathy for them ？
You need to be more thoughtful since someone has died ？.

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#12
  • A
  • 2024/03/14 (Thu) 14:21
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This is very painful news. I don't know the circumstances of your family, but I myself have not lived here that long, so I tend to think in terms of "if it were in Japan," and I was surprised at the difference between Japan and here in many ways.

The news reports that in Hawaii, this is the second most shocking incident in terms of fatalities after the 1999 Xerox shootings, but in Japan, family suicide is not so rare, so （ one family ） is considered to be （ a family suicide, whereas ） one family in a public place is called a family suicide. I was surprised to see the news report citing a public shooting in a public place.
I did some research and found that, unlike in Japan, it is rare for a family to be involved in a suicide in the US. I wonder if the husband of the deceased Japanese-American knew that family suicide is reasonably common in Japan. I was also surprised that the news article even included the address of the house where the incident took place, and that the surrounding houses were also shown in the video without mosaic.
In Japan, addresses would never be published on the news, and there would be a mosaic.

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#13
  • coco
  • 2024/03/14 (Thu) 23:20
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#11 Alright Mr.

I don't want this tragedy to happen again because it's too sad

Everyone please be careful. And I think everyone is seriously messaging here. If you had the happiest family, this tragedy would not have happened.

Maybe we will be next.

If someone thinks that we might be next, it will help this forum if it leads to immediate action such as separation or divorce.

Please take it more seriously and seriously.

This is not a random rumor at all ！ ！ This is a message of prevention to save lives.

This incident should be an opportunity for you to learn to spend more time with your children, more time talking to each other

and more.

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#14
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  • 2024/03/15 (Fri) 07:54
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This family was
acquainted with the pastor of the church where I gather for Bible study.

So I don't really want you to start a thread like this.

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#15

It has been a long time ago, but myself and my daughter have been under the care of her husband's treatment, and his wife was working at the reception desk with their son, who was still small, as I recall. We are just shocked at this tragedy. I remember that the wife was a cheerful person and the doctor was very kind in the way he performed the procedure and spoke to her.
I don't want to tell you more than that from my imagination. Of course she was not in a normal state of mind, but I just feel so sorry for the three children who were taken away from her. As someone who knew him more or less before his death, I pray for the souls of all the family members who lost their lives.

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