Vivinavi : Hawaii : (United States) Hawaii

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• 2023/09/01 (Fri) 08:59
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I have a 25 year old daughter
who is now my life review and
well, that's a very long story, but I was a wrecking ball, and without a role model, I went into labor for an unprecedented 14 days, 3 weeks late for my due date, and had to rush into labor in a state of suspended animation
I'm sorry to tell you my story. I was the only female animal in my family, and when my baby finally came to life a little late, I was happier than if I had won the lottery, almost 11 months in the womb, and 14 days in labor.
Now she is like my guardian angel, saying the nicest things to me in the coldest tone of voice and then I realize
I digress, my daughter is about 1 year old, physically mobile, self-aware, vocal, and even if her words are not enough, she can communicate by the wavelength of her voice
At that time, I don't know, I was sleepy and crying. I'm not sure if it's a good idea for me to have a baby, but I'm not sure if it's a good idea for me to have a baby. I'm not religious and I can't see the Reverend but I can smell or see the person's heart at that moment.
I was really happy when I got a positive result for breast cancer
7 years ago
But 5 years ago my daughter told me why she wanted to kill herself She told me about the anti-cancer drugs (experimental in the US military, why she had zero muscle mass in her legs) and the radiation therapy . Radiotherapy (which was no big deal ） Of course, they tried to remove it, but they failed, and two weeks later I survived with the same scar over the same spot, and at one point, after everything was over, my daughter told me that her own father had sexually coerced her...
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all I can say to you here is that before you are a parent, you are growing up with the child
because I did
children have animal instincts like a belly clock for their parents' frustration patterns
my daughter was a child of her father and his father. I asked her why she didn't talk to me about it then, and I'm not shocked that she confessed before that.
What surprised me more was that she actually found out more about me than I did. She told me that she was like the mother in the Terminator movie, and if I told her the truth then she would be in jail right now. I think it's easy to understand when you think a human child has developed a little bit of ego
and where that ego came from ？ it's also a reflection
if you are not in tune (I hate certain religions, just their feelings, the issues behind their problems, etc...) it's like when you play music with different people and they are all on different wavelengths.
I've never been so passionate about Vivinavi
I've never been so passionate about a child or a father
If there is a fourth person like me who is listening at this moment, if there is a fourth person like me who is listening at this moment, if there is a fourth person like me who is listening at this moment, if there is someone who is listening at this moment, if there is someone who is listening at this moment, if there is someone who is listening at this moment, if there is someone who is listening at this moment, if there is someone who is listening at this moment, if there is someone who is listening at this moment. If you can be of any help to me, I would appreciate it 24/7. I'm still an active rocker and play in a bar. No education. But mother of an only daughter
I've never replied to anyone like this before
I think it's because I drank too much tequila

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• 2023/09/01 (Fri) 17:04
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Even if you didn't swim, you played in the sand at the beach or took them to the Toddler Program at Paki Park.
We also had an annual pass for the ZOO, so we often took walks in the ZOO.
We also went to Toddler Time at Kahala Mall every week. It was nice to make friends with other kids around the same age in the Toddler Program at the park. At home play, we did sticker books and paper crafts together. Lots of picture book reading too. You also let them play in the bathtub with shallow water. We also gave them plastic bags and went with them to pick up plumeria at a neighbor's house.
My children have already started elementary school, but when I see children around 1.5 years old,
I miss my own children when they were small :)

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• 2023/09/01 (Fri) 20:41
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Well, well, well, thank you.
I see that some of the parks have Toddler programs ！
and the Kahala Mall ！ There is certainly a Zoo.
I will try to find one near my house.

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• 2023/09/02 (Sat) 15:24
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All aboard
Thank you for your enthusiastic post ！
It took quite a while to be reflected here, I just read it. Thank you for your concern. But I'm not troubled by it. I just wondered how you all are spending your time. You have had a checkered life, blessed with a very nice young lady .

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• 2023/09/04 (Mon) 11:17
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I started taking my children to preschooler meetings at church and temple before they turned one, not so much for my children's sake, but more for my own relaxation. I think it was more for my own relaxation than for my children's. When they were about one year old, I started attending parent-child classes at IJCC (International Japanese Christian Church) and parent-child classes at Makiki Church. I also purchased an annual pass to the Honolulu Zoo and Children's Discovery Center, which I often visited. We also took them to Family Sunday at the Honolulu Museum of Art. I also enjoyed the playground at the Windward Mall, which was designed for small children, and when they were about one and a half years old, they took gymnastics classes, rhythmic classes, and group baby swimming lessons with friends, with a teacher coming to our house. I took them to the park every evening and kept myself busy, but now I think it would have been better if I had set aside a little more time to just laze around at home with my child. I thought I had started attending preschool, but in the blink of an eye, I was a college student. The time when they spoiled me and followed me around with "mommy, mommy," seemed long at the time, but now when I think back on it, it really was just a moment, and I really love these precious days. Enjoy the time you have with your adorable children.

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• 2023/09/04 (Mon) 15:06
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Thank you, weaning mom ！
You have been very active ！ My son loved milk so much until recently that he was afraid to go out much if we ran out on the road. Once we were delayed on a flight to an outlying island, and she was so impatient and traumatized when we ran out of milk, both on hand and at the store. In the end, he slept and we were able to get through the situation. The museum is nice It hasn't been open for a while in Corona. We will certainly have much less time together once preschool starts, so I'm looking forward to enjoying the time we have now .