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I hate Hawaii.

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#1
  • Crawfish
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  • 2021/11/11 08:48

We moved to Oahu because of my husband's job.
I hate Hawaii because of the high prices, the bugs, the small land, the lack of four seasons, the year-round heat, the fact that there is nothing to do but go to the ocean or mountains, etc., and the lack of stores on the main land.
I am not interested in nature, so I don't go to the ocean or mountains.
I knew these things before I moved here, but when I actually lived here, everything was beyond my imagination in a bad way. It is really hard and depressing every day.

I don't understand why everyone is so fascinated with Hawaii and want to move to Hawaii ？
I have no idea.
Every day is hell.
Every day I long for the day I can leave Hawaii.

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#40
  • Crawfish
  • 2021/11/12 (Fri) 18:50
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Dear Waikiki

I think you are right.
I can't argue with that. I think that lack of money is at the root of all problems.
Living in Hawaii is heartbreakingly hard for poor people.
Yes, I will start by finding a job.

Thank you for your on point comments.

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#41
  • ラピュタ
  • 2021/11/13 (Sat) 11:59
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Crawfish-san

Even if you don't like Hawaii, you probably followed your husband because he doesn't mind.

Several Japanese women who could not keep up with their husbands' transfers who loved Hawaii and did not want to move to the mainland, got divorced.

If two couples work together, they will realize how fortunate Hawaii is to have Japanese people.

Most Japanese who have lived on the mainland have experienced racism ？ Hawaii is a predominantly Japanese land

You will be treated well, not racially. And you can get more Japanese food than on the mainland, and there are many Sushi restaurants.

Not having to buy winter clothes will also clear out your closet.

After a month in Hawaii, this wonderful climate has cured my depression. Rheumatism was cured.
I have also heard that the climate in Hawaii cured my depression within a month.
Please look for the positive aspects.

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#45

You are absolutely right Crawfish.
Bad things about Hawaii
are not like this.
There are probably more.
Then
are there any good things about Hawaii …
I am sure there are many good things.
The point is
where you look …
if you look at the bad, you will only complain
if you look at the good, you will only be grateful
you have the choice what to look at in life.
You are free to do so.
I came to Hawaii 20 years ago,
I thought, "If I come to Hawaii for pleasure, it's heaven ， If I live here, it's hell
.
I realized that no matter where you live, it's always about where your eyes are
.
When I was living in Japan, I was living my life taking it for granted without feeling "how wonderful Japan is"
.
After coming to Hawaii, I have learned many good things about Japan ，
and I am now proud to be Japanese.
I was able to spend 20 years in Hawaii, which made me realize many things.

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#46
  • 焼き魚は大根おろしで
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  • 2021/11/15 (Mon) 20:37
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Mr. Crawfish
If you are from the Mainland and would rather complain about the lack of things every day, why don't you go back to Japan for a while ？
However, there might be a risk that your husband will get a girlfriend while you are separated. However, there is a risk that your husband may get a girlfriend while you are separated. If you were to live so earnestly, you would be suffocated. Make friends first and go out. I hope you can get away from the internet ！.

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#47

Dear Crawfish

I recently returned to Hawaii after a 10 year absence due to a job transfer. This is my wife's first time in Hawaii. She doesn't complain to me, but I'm sure she's confused and depressed about life in Hawaii. As a husband, first of all, I am sorry for giving her a hard time. And thank you so much for following me.

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