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日本の実家への帰省頻度は?
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- Mikan.88
- 2017/10/27 09:25
主人と愛犬とハワイに住んでいます。
ご結婚されてる方、お仕事や学校の為にハワイに滞在してる方いろいろだと思いますが 日本のご実家に帰省する頻度はどのくらいでしょうか?
また日本では滞在先はご実家でしょうか?その場合、お金を払いますか?
私は日本を離れて2年、まだ1度も帰省していません。私の日本の母から「まだ帰って来ないの?こんなに帰ってこないのは貴方達くらいだ。もし、うちに泊まるなら宿泊代払いなさいよ」とここ最近、毎日!連絡が来ます。
正直、ウンザリです。
みなさんの帰省頻度、また日本でご実家に泊まる場合はお金は支払いますか?もし支払うならいくら払っているのでしょうか?
教えて下さい😞
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- sara
- 2017/10/27 (Fri) 10:46
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私は日本に帰国したいから毎年帰国していますよ。
家族がハワイに来た時には私の家に泊まったり、コンドミニアム代を
私が払っているから実家に泊まる時にはお土産も沢山買って行くのでお金を要求された事はありません。
家族とどれくらいの信頼関係、経済的状況は人それぞれ違うと思うので
何とも言えないでしょう。
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最低年に一回は帰ります。初めて帰省した際に一度お金を払おうとしましたが、受け取ってくれず、なのでお土産はいつもいっぱい買って帰りますし、年に2回位は母が日本のものを大量に送ってくれます。
みんな事情が違うので比べないでもいいのかなと思います。よく帰るこもいれば全然帰らない友達もいますよ。
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私はここ四年半ほど帰ってないし、次の一時帰国は未定です。
学生時代は本土にいたので休暇があればこっちにいる友達と国内旅行したり、イベント組んでました。(みんな大学卒業後は国に帰ったり州移ったりでばらばらになるし、
在学中に出会うこの中にも一年留学とか短期間しか一緒に過ごせない子がたくさんいたのでその子たちとの時間を優先してました。)
最初の数年はほんとに何もかも新鮮で友達といるのが楽しくてホームシックになることも一切なく、慣れたら今度は心地よすぎてアメリカ離れる気になれずずっとのんびりやってました。
二年目なんて私も帰る気も帰りたさもゼロでしたよー!
卒業後はハワイに引っ越してきて日本との距離も縮まったし一度帰ろうかな~と思うも仕事のスケジュールだったり主人と休暇合わせるのに苦戦したりで気づけば…。
うちの母も最初の数年はいつ帰ってくるの~!っていつも言ってましたがいつ頃からか気づけば元気にしてるか~!に変わってました。
会わない期間が延びれば伸びるほどうちはちょうどいい距離感になって楽になりましたよ~!もともと超過保護の心配性だったのがだいぶ緩くなりました。(あきらめたのかな。笑)
今はちょくちょく写真付きでゆるーい近況報告のラインをお互いするぐらいです。
帰国中の滞在先が実家な場合は大量にお土産買って帰ります。お金は一切受け取ってくれないので、次帰るときは温泉旅行でも連れてってあげようかなって考えているところです。
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