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I hate Hawaii.

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#1
  • Crawfish
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  • 2021/11/11 08:48

We moved to Oahu because of my husband's job.
I hate Hawaii because of the high prices, the bugs, the small land, the lack of four seasons, the year-round heat, the fact that there is nothing to do but go to the ocean or mountains, etc., and the lack of stores on the main land.
I am not interested in nature, so I don't go to the ocean or mountains.
I knew these things before I moved here, but when I actually lived here, everything was beyond my imagination in a bad way. It is really hard and depressing every day.

I don't understand why everyone is so fascinated with Hawaii and want to move to Hawaii ?
I have no idea.
Every day is hell.
Every day I long for the day I can leave Hawaii.

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#2
  • ビタミンC
  • 2021/11/11 (Thu) 10:38
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What do you want to do by posting your negative feelings in a social networking forum? ?
You want to gain sympathy ?
You want to communicate with others who feel the same way ?
I don't think this is a place for complaining …. I think this is not the place to complain . You can vent on your own social networking site ?

By the way, I came along with my husband for his work.
I had to quit my own job in Japan.
I didn't have a longing for Hawaii or overseas, so I didn't come here because I wanted to.
Not all people are attracted to Hawaii and came here.

I hope your wish comes true and you can leave Hawaii soon.

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#3
  • Crawfish
  • 2021/11/11 (Thu) 11:12
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Since you selected the tab for your concerns ・ consultation, I thought it was okay to post this kind of content.
Sorry if I offended you.
Should I delete it ??

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#5
  • ビタミンC
  • 2021/11/11 (Thu) 15:47
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You were worried and asked for advice.
My reading comprehension was not good.
My apologies.
As a resident of Hawaii, I was a little displeased with your post, which negates everything about Hawaii. I hope you get some good advice.

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#6
  • ビタミンD
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  • 2021/11/11 (Thu) 17:16
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I am also a Mainlander who moved from Mainland. I understand how you feel because it is hard for those who had to move to Hawaii from the Mainland. I think it takes a few years to get used to it.

I know there are some lands that don't suit you, but to name only the lacking parts without mentioning a single good thing at all, doesn't it come from your personality, regardless of the land ? Negative people don't attract people. Shaka ( You should start by looking up the meaning of shaka ) ?

If changing the environment will solve your mental problems, you should discuss it with your husband ? ? ? You can take regular trips to Maine land or any other way to relax. ?

This is a place for people who live in Hawaii to read. Some of us work from morning till night and live hard. You should refrain from using straight words like "I hate Hawaii" or "hell.

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