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I hate Hawaii.

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#1
  • Crawfish
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  • 2021/11/11 08:48

We moved to Oahu because of my husband's job.
I hate Hawaii because of the high prices, the bugs, the small land, the lack of four seasons, the year-round heat, the fact that there is nothing to do but go to the ocean or mountains, etc., and the lack of stores on the main land.
I am not interested in nature, so I don't go to the ocean or mountains.
I knew these things before I moved here, but when I actually lived here, everything was beyond my imagination in a bad way. It is really hard and depressing every day.

I don't understand why everyone is so fascinated with Hawaii and want to move to Hawaii ?
I have no idea.
Every day is hell.
Every day I long for the day I can leave Hawaii.

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#19
  • ビタミンD
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  • 2021/11/11 (Thu) 19:52
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I took it to mean "other than the relaxation method, other than the Mainland trip." I just thought that if even relaxation is not an option, then you have to move ?.

You see, Hawaii is not all bad with some people giving you kind advice. Good luck making new friends and having fun in real life!

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#21
  • Crawfish
  • 2021/11/11 (Thu) 20:25
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Dear Vitamin D

I re-read my sentence and it was written in a way that could be taken that way. My apologies. Yes, I realized that there are kind people and that there are also people who enjoy their alone time.
I will try to be positive and try again.

I am glad to hear your opinions. It's been a long time since I talked so much in Japanese.
I feel a little better now.

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#24
  • ワイズ
  • 2021/11/12 (Fri) 14:40
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It was good to hear your opinions.
> It's been a long time since I talked so much in Japanese.
> I felt a little better.

What? ? I lived in NY for 10 years and Europe for 8 years, but there is a foreign country where you can speak a lot more Japanese than Hawaii ?
There is anything easier than speaking Japanese to make you feel better ?
Really? Have you ever lived abroad? ? It sounds like the problems of someone from Japan who is living abroad for the first time.
Or maybe it's the Hawaii knocking, I understand the feeling of envy and wanting to knock Hawaii because it's so popular.

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#25
  • Crawfish
  • 2021/11/12 (Fri) 15:09
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Mr. Wise

Yes, I really have lived abroad.
I said I hadn't spoken Japanese in a long time because I don't know anyone in Hawaii who speaks Japanese.
I had Japanese friends where I used to live, so I spoke Japanese far more than I do now.
Even though you say Hawaii, do you ever see or hear Japanese in stores outside of Waikiki? ?
Sorry, I don't know, I don't eat out or go out much.

What do you mean by "Hawaii beat" ?
I don't understand, can you please tell me ?.

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#26
  • ワイズ
  • 2021/11/12 (Fri) 15:31
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Don't ask questions about everything.

If you can't make a single Japanese friend in Hawaii, you must have other problems ?
The best thing I can recommend for you is counseling.

In other states, there are so few Japanese that they are forced to associate with other Japanese.
That is not a real friend, just a connection because they want to speak Japanese.

Here in Hawaii, like in Japan, Japanese people are not rare, so
if you don't communicate with them yourself, they won't do anything for you.
It must be a relief for you to finally have people to talk to and vent to here.

Please take care of yourself.

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